A mindful and values-focused counselling & psychotherapy & coaching practice - across Richmond-upon-Thames and the wider UK & Europe.
Although I have been in private psychotherapy practice for some years (utilising the Parent-Adult-Child model of Transactional Analysis psychotherapy) in 2014 I began re-skilling in Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) - a vital and practical, science-led therapy, which is more commonly used by psychologists, but virtually unknown to psychotherapists. I was seeking an authentic, cohesive therapy process, that was less reactive and backward looking - and more proactive and forward focused. A process that could be effective in both therapy and in professional life coaching. In addition, I've taken one of the best Life & Wellbeing Coach trainings, and work face-to-face online with clients across both the UK and Europe.
I invite you to explore your life values - what you’d like to stand up for in life; what you’d like to be known or remembered for. When you know (and practice) what you really stand for - you become unshakeable. Your true values will shape everything you do and the quality of your relationships - and we will keep returning to them throughout our sessions together.
I will support you to work towards clearly defined, meaningful goals - those which are underpinned by your values. They may be small or large, every-day management or life enhancing. We will break them down into achievable, bite size pieces.
It is important to separate You from your difficult thoughts - so we will use Mindfulness Meditation and other exercises to help you develop greater in-the-moment awareness of you-in-relationship with yourself and others. Acceptance of what’s out of your control, actually helps you become more emotionally flexible. The need to grasp-at and control (what we can’t) washes away like a leaf floating downstream, and, in our sessions, you will begin to actively take command of what is within your control - and make a real difference.
For therapy, I blend ACT with my original training and experience in Transactional Analysis Psychotherapy. Some TA theories and tools really support the “defusion” (separating You from your thoughts) part of the ACT process – and bring greater depth to the therapy.
I believe in equality between therapist and client - and in authentic discussion.
Trained in both secular and Buddhist Mindfulness Meditation - as part of our sessions (in both therapy and coaching), we will make use of some short, here-and-now meditations. There is no requirement to be religious or have have any belief, whatsoever, to be mindful (and I do not undertake the type of mindfulness practice as prescribed in Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy MBCT or Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction MBSR programmes - as I find some of their techniques prescriptive, instructional and intrusive).
For many years, until he stopped practising, my primary supervisor was David Tidsall (PTSTA; TA psychotherapist) - my current supervisor is Yara Steel, who is highly experienced in mind-body approaches.
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